Hello, brides-to-be!
It’s me, Amy, your bridal insider and go-to for all things glamorous, organized, and stress-free. Let’s spill the tea on how to make sure your wedding day is flawless and drama-free. Because, trust me, the last thing you want is to wake up feeling like Serena but end the day channeling Blair in full meltdown mode.
Here’s what you absolutely must do—and what you should avoid like a pair of cheap shoes on your big day.
Do's
- Steam Dresses and Suits the Night Before
You’ve spent months picking the perfect gown and suits—don’t let creases steal the show. Steaming everything the night before is non-negotiable. Why? Because on the morning of, plug sockets near windows are rarer than a sunny wedding day in Manchester, and no one wants a bridal suite filled with hot, sweaty steam clouds. - Prep Your Bridal Suite for Morning Photos
Getting ready with your crew is like a scene from a rom-com… until you glance around and realize your suite looks like the aftermath of a beauty tornado. Baby wipes, lash boxes, and half-eaten croissants? Not the vibe. Schedule 10 minutes for a clean-up crew (or assign your most organized bridesmaid) to tidy the space before the photographer arrives. Trust me, you’ll thank me when your “dad’s first look” photos are Pinterest-worthy. - Always Have a Rain Plan
Even if the forecast predicts sunshine, don’t tempt fate. Rain showers are like uninvited wedding crashers—you never know when they’ll show up. Umbrellas, a backup indoor space, or even chic waterproof flooring for outdoor ceremonies will save your day (and your shoes). - Fill the Downtime Between Ceremony and Reception
While you’re off living your best life with your new hubby during the photo hour, your guests might feel a little… lost. Keep them entertained with interactive activities: think photo booths, live acoustic music, or even a quirky cocktail bar. Pro tip: signature cocktails named after you and your partner = instant Instagram content. - Be Sunburn Savvy at Destination Weddings
A sunburned parting? Forehead peeling during your vows? No, thank you. Bring a chic parasol, slather on the SPF, and make sure your bridal party does the same. Your photographer might love golden-hour lighting, but no one loves a lobster bride.
Dont's
- Wait Until Morning to Steam Dresses
Just don’t. You’ll end up with wrinkled clothes, a stressed-out bridal party, and someone inevitably burning their finger. - Underestimate the Chaos of Getting Ready
Think you’ll have time to declutter mid-glam? That’s cute. Delegate this one to someone else so you can focus on looking and feeling fabulous. - Ignore the “Rain Might Happen” Signs
No backup? Big mistake, huge. Your hair, makeup, and aisle runner will never forgive you. - Let Guests Wander Aimlessly Between Events
A bored guest is one step away from over-indulging at the champagne bar too early. Keep them happy and engaged, and they’ll rave about your wedding for years. - Forget to Protect Your Skin
Heat + pictures = sweat and sunburn. Not ideal for your big moment. - Assume Your Bridesmaids Can Do It All
Your bridesmaids might love you, but they’re not superheroes. On the morning of the wedding, they’ll be busy with hair, makeup, and getting camera-ready—just like you. Throw in a few chatty guests or last-minute questions, and their hands are already full. Don’t leave yourself stranded with a long to-do list and no one to tackle it. Instead, hire one of our personal assistants to keep everything running smoothly, so your bridesmaids can focus on what they’re really there for: celebrating you. - Don’t Forget a Fan
Barbados or Scotland, it doesn’t matter—wedding dresses are basically portable saunas. Heavy, tight, and not exactly breathable. Add fresh makeup and nerves, and you’re one step away from a meltdown. Keep it cool with a fan and stash some touch-up essentials. Shine belongs on the ring, not your face.
And there you have it, darlings—the ultimate guide to making sure your wedding day is as picture-perfect as your Pinterest board.
Lots of love,
Amy
xoxo
